胡思乱想时。

近日不断胡思乱想，当看到别人的幸福，快乐时，心中不禁地妒忌起来。

一直后悔为何当初。。。。。。

不然自己也有如此的幸福。

除此以外，也将一些责任推给别人。。。。。。

不停的寻找证据，以便日后可以对付了。
心中不禁地问：‘难道上帝看不见我的苦难，视而不见吗？’

但有一个声音对我说：‘请你抬起头看看，看下天空的云彩与彩虹，

这些都是为你而造。为何不开口赞美，而一直执著地埋怨；

何不好好地读我的话语，让我的灵与爱充满你的心。’

当我依照的做时，心中的埋怨，妒忌不在缠绕着我的心。心中的重担突然变的轻松起来。

原来最好的事情和东西一直都在自己的身边，只是我不察觉而已。

多一点与主交通，主必用奇妙奥秘的爱与方法，来安慰我们。

因为神是信实可靠，永不改变。 感恩主一直都再看顾我。

当你听到一个声音或要作决定时。。。

许多時候，我們裡面起了一個聲音，自己不知道這聲音究竟是出乎神的呢，還是出乎自 己的。

在這種情形之下，我們還是不動的好。

如果這是出乎神的，神必給我們充足的證 據來證實這是出乎祂的，叫我們絲毫沒有疑惑的可能。

神喜歡我們照著祂的心意行事。所以我們不可輕舉妄動，以致違反了祂的心意。

神的手指所點的道路，神的手必去預備 你不要說你要做什麼、你不要做什麼；
你只要求神叫你看見祂所為你選擇的是那一條 路。

如果道路還未顯明，這就是說：現在還沒有行動的需要；你站在你現在所站的地位 上，神是負全責的。

但保惠师，就是父因我的命所要差来的圣灵，
他要将一切的事指教你们，并且要叫你们想起我对你们所说的一切话.(约14：26）

愛是不保留

虽然有些事，一转身就一辈子。
但圣经说：神爱世人，并将他的独生子赐下，为担当我们的罪，被钉死在十字架上，第三日从死里复活。
为我们预备。

上帝的爱是永不止息。

歌林多前书13：1-13：
信望爱中最大的是爱。作者保罗写给歌林多教会。他要把更高的道路指示你们。

我若能说世人和天使的方言，却没有爱，我就成了鸣的锣，响的鈀一样。
我若有先知讲道的恩赐，也明白各样的奥秘，各样的知识；并且有全备的信，
叫我能够移山，却没有爱，我就算不得什么。
我若把一切所有的分给人，又舍己身被人焚烧，却没有爱，对我仍然毫无益处。

爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈。爱是不妒忌，不自夸，不张狂；不作失礼的事，
不求自己的益处，不轻易动怒，不计较人的过犯；
不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理。

爱是凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。
爱是永存不息的。先知的讲道终必过去，
方言终必停止，知识终必消失。

因为我们现在所知道的，只是一部分；所讲的道也只是一部分；
等那完全的来到，这部分的就要过去了。
我作孩子的时候，说话像孩子，心思像孩子，想法像孩子，既然长大了，就把孩子的事都丢弃了。

我们现在是对着镜子观看，模糊不清，到那时就要面对面了。
我现在所知道的只是一部分，到那时就完全知道了，好像主完全知道我一样。

现在常存的有信，望，爱这三样，其中最大的是爱。

有些事，一转身就是一辈子

After saw this short film,sometimes I really regret that when I think back
the moment with him during school day.
Although now have FB account,but still have no chance to meet together,
even a small chat.

Think this is the regret thing in my life...

Don't wait... ... sometimes what is left and gone,time could not reverse

An inspiring advertisement

Is more than a normal commercial.
The story of a deaf and mute girl who learns to play the violin against all odds.

Reading & Writing Assignments

Reading & Writing assignments,seem like many college students all struggling about.

Sound easy,but when ask to do it...find it difficult to start.

However, once you find the lubricants to start, then the more smooth you could do it.

I wish to share it and also as a reminder to myself also.

1. Read the table of content.
Scan & glance all the headings,at least get the rough idea about the book.
2. Is time to read the book.
Read with a highlighter ,and mark up your readings.
3. After that, you might need to re-read. This time notice all the highlighting.
4. Notice the key words (actually are a few). With these key words, would help you to understand what is in the book

5. Now, the most difficult part & the most important part.

Must Decide –how many pages to summarises ? WHICH sections to summarize.

The writer suggest that take a glance of the book (flip through the pages), then take a walk,or some ‘no-brainer’.

Ask yourself : By using 5W,1H (What,Where,When,Why,Which,How) Imagine that you have ask to prepare to teach in Sunday School? How many hours do I want to devote to teach this course ? and what do I want to cover during each hour ?

Imagine that you have a listener (a class), or a reader for what you
write. What do YOU want to tell them?

Many might said that you are copying. Actually is not.
There is a reason, a purpose, behind this assignment

The purpose is: you need to DIGEST,
INTERNALIZE what you read; then DECIDE for yourself the SIGNIFICANCE of what you have read; then DECIDE for yourself, which sections to summarize, and WHY you
choose these sections/pages.

Hope these could help you all ,also wish all excel in your study life. :-D

Who Loves you ? Who should you date ?

Think many of Christians have below concern ..

How to have a dating relationship in His way, which I have find below article(summary) is really useful .

God wants the best for us in every area of our lives.
This includes relationships with boyfriends or girlfriends.

We should date for fun, friendship, personality development and selection of a mate, not to be popular or for security.

Don't allow peer pressure to force you into dating situations that are not appropriate.

1. Guard your heart .

The Bible tells us to be very careful about giving our affections, because our heart influences everything else in our life.

Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23).

2. You are known by the company you keep.

We also tend to become like the company we keep. This principle is closely related to the first one and is just as important in friendships as in dating.

Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33).

3. Christians should only date other Christian.

Although it is fine for Christians to have non-Christian friends, those who are especially close to our heart should be mature believers who are seeking to follow Christ with their lives.

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14).

4. Is It really love ?

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 defines real love. Ask yourself these questions:
• Are you patient with each other?
• Are you kind to each other?
• Are you never envious of each other?
• Do you never boast to or about each other?
• Is your relationship characterized by humility?
• Are you never rude to each other?
• Are you not self-seeking?
• Are you not easily angered with each other?
• Do you keep no record of wrongs?
• Are you truthful with each other?
• Do you protect each other?
• Do you trust each other?

If you answered “yes” to the above questions, then 1 Corinthians 13 says that you truly have a loving relationship

Success Test

My Success

External Goals	20
Popular Fame	18
World well-being	50
Political Influence	0
Internal Goals	47
Partner and Family	60
Friends	40
Financial Success	62
Creation / Fulfillment	30

You do not require much external approval and do not mind if others see you as successful or not.You are not at all interested in becoming famous and do not enjoy the attention of others. You are not an attention seeker at all. You would like to make the world a better place if you can. If the opportunity presents itself for you to help those around you then you will take it. You don't really like positions of authority and will avoid them as much as possible. Love and good relationships are very important factors for you. What is life without love? You cherish the relationships of those around you and have a lot of love to give. While you have a good social group, you are not overly worried about the social aspects of your life. Money makes the world go round, and being financially free and successful is important to you. Be careful that you don't focus on financial success so much that it inhibits your personal relationships. You work to live, you don't live to work. Work is a neccessary part of your life, but you don't derive a huge amount of satisfaction from it.

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春雨里洗過的太陽

十分喜欢这首歌，另一首力宏以轻快，轻松地旋律 的 演绎方式。特别是在失落时，往外看看--雨後的天上 像彩虹出現 襯出一片藍天。

詞/王力宏/易家揚　曲/王力宏

分開之後另一年的春天 記憶也像下雪一樣溶解

那些有你在身邊的影片 呼的一聲飛得老遠老遠

愛在夏天過完之後鎖在秋天 捱過冬天之後的我好了一些

嘿 雨後的天上 像彩虹出現 襯出一片藍天

我在淋過一場大雨之後的晴朗 那是春雨裡洗過的太陽

每個冬季帶來失落 傷得多深 然後忽然看懂雲的形狀 (Oh Yeah)

If you listen to the rhythm of the pouring rain 那是春雨裡洗過的太陽

每個冬季帶來失落 傷得多深 每個呼吸都是新的芬芳 (Oh Yeah)

分開之後另一年的春天 記憶也像下雪一樣溶解

那些有你在身邊的影片 呼的一聲飛得老遠老遠

愛在夏天過完之後鎖在秋天 捱過冬天之後的我好了一些

嘿 雨後的天上 像彩虹出現 襯出一片藍天

流下的眼淚 留下了智慧 愛情會天亮 也一定會黑

世界會等我 它會問我冬天過去了沒

我在淋過一場大雨之後的晴朗 那是春雨裡洗過的太陽(Oh)

每個冬季帶來失落 傷得多深 然後忽然看懂雲的形狀

If you listen to the rhythm of the pouring rain(Yeah)

那是春雨裡洗過的太陽(春雨裡的太陽)

每個冬季帶來失落 傷得多深(傷得多深)

每個呼吸都是你的芬芳 春雨裡洗過的太陽

Relationship Test

My Relationship

Security	44
Avoidance	87
Ambivalence	94
Worry	89
Merger	100

You have moderate security in your relationships and receive some comfort from being around the people you love. This will sometimes help you to cope with life and to be stronger in other situations. You have commitment issues and find it very difficult to commit yourself emotionally to any relationship. This means that other people find it very difficult to get close to you and may not draw much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more. You stress too much about relationships and place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You can get very neurotic about your relationships and find yourself spending a great deal of time worrying about them. You focus much energy on worrying about being abandoned and this can lead to problems in your relationships. Worrying less about if you are loved or not could help you to enjoy existing relationships more. You are overly clingy in relationships and try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

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The real truth

While someday you just realise the things happen

around you does not seem like the way you think.

Suddenly, you will feel I have keep lie to myself many many many times until you believe it so much.

Actually you yourself does not look like what you act .

Once you realise that, you will feel very hard to face it to yourself,suddenly you will be miserable that what you should do.

Then you found yourself in a very very cold place ,

where no one will find you. The only you could rely on is the light.

The light that take you out from that place.

Who is that light ? who is willing to help you ,and have the power to overcome it .

He is Jesus Christ, the son of God.

In the beginning was the word,and the word was with God.

He was with God in the beginning.

Through him all things are made;without him nothing was made that has been made .

In him was life, and that life is the light of men.

The light shines in the darkness ,but the darkness could not understand it . (John 1:1-5)

He willing to died for us,because he love us so much... ...

He left his glorious come down to this world...to save you and me... ... He love so much...He died on the cross for us.

That is the true and real truth ... ... He is the word .

He is Love ...The only truth that will not change forever .