在你最美丽的时候

当读到这篇文章时，心中不禁回想以前中学的时候，很想把心里的感觉对他表示，但碍于自己的自卑感，一直藏在，甚至忘了，直到看到这篇文章，令我想起。。。

Now, could not move backward to rectify, only would pray something right time right place to take right action.....to fulfill ....hope others will consider about it before it is too late....

世界上只有兩种可以稱之為浪漫的情感，
一种叫相濡以沫， 另一种叫相忘于江湖

我們要做的是，爭取和最愛的人相濡以沫和次愛的人相忘于江湖
也許不是不曾心動，不是沒有可能，
只是有緣無份，情深緣淺，我們愛在不對的時間

回首往事的時候，想起那些如流星般划過生命的愛情
我們常常會把彼此的錯過歸咎為緣份， 其實說到底，
緣份是那么虛幻抽象的一個概念

真正影響我們的，往往就是那一時三刻相遇与相愛的時机男女之間的交往 ，
充滿了猶疑忐忑的不确定与欲言又止的矜持一個小小的變數，
就可以完全改變選擇的方向如果彼此出現早一點，
也許就不會和另一個人十指緊扣又或者相遇的再晚一點，
晚到兩個人在各自的愛情經歷中慢慢地學會了包容与体諒善待和妥協，
也許走到一起的時候就不會那么輕易的放棄， 任性地轉身，
放走了愛情在你最美麗的時候， 你遇見了誰？

在你深愛一個人的時候，誰又陪在你身邊愛情到底給了你多少時間？
去相遇与分离？
去選擇与后悔不是不心動， 不是不后悔，
但已經沒有時間再去相擁如果愛一個人而無法在一起，
相愛卻無法在适當的時候相遇如果愛了卻愛在不對的時候，
除了珍藏那一滴心底的淚， 無言的走遠， 又能有什么選擇要在時間的荒野，
沒有早一步也，沒有晚一步，于千万人之中去邂逅自己的愛人那是太難得的緣份，

更多的時候，
我們只是在彼此不斷地錯過錯過楊花飄風的春，
又錯過了楓葉瑟索的秋， 直到漫天白雪年華不再，

在一次次的心酸感嘆之后， 才能終于了解——即使真摯，
即使親密即使兩個人都已是心有戚戚，

我們的愛依然需要時間來成全和考驗這世界有著太多的
這樣那樣的限制与隱秘的禁忌又有太多難以預測的變故
和身不由已的离合一個轉身也許就已經一輩子錯過，

要到很多年以后才會參透所有的爭取与努力也許還抵不過命運開的一個玩笑，
上帝只在云端眨了一眨眼在對的時間，遇見對的人，是一种幸福在對的時間，遇見錯的人，是一种悲傷在錯的時間，遇見對的人，是一聲嘆息在錯的時間，遇見錯的人，是一种無奈回憶的花瓣掠過心湖， 泛起片片漣漪， 愛不是千言万語， 也不是朝朝暮暮愛是每當午夜夢醒時，發現內心牽挂的依然是遠方的你。

Positive Work Behaviors

Would like to share with you all tips of being positive during this economic downturn time.hope this would benefit those who read it

Positive Work Behaviors: 8 Straightforward Tips For Moving Up The Corporate Ladder

Many of us fail to see that simple positive work behaviors practiced early can help in moving up the corporate ladder. Here are 8 new tips for making that career head start.

So what are the 8 straightforward positive work behaviors for moving up the corporate ladder?

1. Ideas
Regardless of how junior you are in an organization, you can have ideas that positively affect the company.
Do not be contented with just doing your own work.
Do not be shy or embarrassed about sharing them either.


2. Impact

Be smart enough to choose some projects in a year that are considered a challenge for your level of experience.
Be hardworking enough to see it through,but have the wisdom to cross check with your bosses to make sure it is a challenge and not impossible for your experience. That way you can create an impact in the company, not just an average worker.


3. Impeccable

This positive work behavior is to be flawless in your language and dressing.
Know that you are judged at all times. Being impeccable when it comes to dressing doesn’t mean expensive clothes. It simply means to dress well. Being impeccable with your language doesn’t mean using bombastic words. Quite simply, it means abstaining from vulgarity.


4. Independent Learn to work independently.

Learn to work with minimal supervision. When you can work independently, it allows your boss to concentrate on other things. But remember to always update your boss on what and how you are doing. Working independently as part of positive work behaviors will help you in moving up the corporate ladder.



5. Ignite

Take the initiative to start something. It does not always have to be work oriented. It can be something fun or informal. For example, if you know some of your colleagues enjoy exploring different restaurants, why not start a group that does it after work Fridays? When you are a positive ignition, you can move up the corporate ladder quickly.


6. Interest Show interest in your company’s initiatives.

Be an interested party in things involving your department.. As part of positive work behaviors, show interest in these initiatives. Give it a chance and support them. Do not send signals that your bosses see you as being merely contented as being a passenger of the company. That doesn’t help in your plan of moving up the corporate ladder.


7. Intangible

Do not always focus on the tangible benefits when working. There are a lot of values in doing things that at the moment does not seem to benefit you. For example, helping a colleague on a project. Volunteering to cover for someone who’s sick. These may not have immediate tangible benefits but in the long run, helps you in moving up the corporate ladder.


8. Integrity

This positive work behavior means to have a sound moral character. Practiced at its most basic level for a career newbies, it can be as simple as not talking bad about a colleague and gossiping. Do not be drawn into wrong doings like cutting corners. Be honest in your dealings with colleagues, clients, business partners and suppliers.


You need not have an evil plan when thinking about moving up the corporate ladder. Cliché as it maybe, the cunning plans makes you fall off the corporate ladder faster than you can climb it.