Maturity

What is maturity ? the state of being mature ,ripeness.

Sometimes, I ask myself whether my behaviour show I am childish.

Then , recently sometimes happen that really make me think that
the behavior is really childish.

Maybe, I quote an example :
In a family, suppose father and mother are in love and communicate to each other. But the husband do somethings unexpectedly ,without the knowledge of his wife. Then, the third party aware of it, quickly tell the truth to his wife. Then the wife has no choice and make the choice to buy the sold house and car for future benefit.

As a third parties, what would be your view point for the workdone by the husband and the wife.

This remind me again,the word of god.In 1 Corinthians 13 ,Paul wrote about the meaning of Love.

Love suffers long and is kind;Love does not envy;love does not parade itself,is not puffed up,does not behave rudely,does not seek its own,is not provoked,thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity,endures all things. Love never fails.But whether there are prophecies,they will fail;whether there are tongues,they will cease;whether there is knowledge,it will vanish away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part.But when that which is perfect has come,then that which is in part will be donw away.

When I was a child,I spoke as a child,I understood as a child, I thought as a child;but when I became a man,I put away childish things.
For now then I shall know just as I also am known.
And now abide faith,hope,love,these three ; but the greatest of these is Love.

Wish I could observe ,interpret and apply what had learn from the bible.