When Should People Leave Their Church?

I would hardly pray for this quite some time, as notice the church situation is getting worse,the doctrine of christian religion is getting corrupted.

However able to find an article which help a lots and guidance,
because I wish to leave the church .....

Adapted by gty.org, put it in my blogger as reference for future.
Does not need to copy others article to make it my own .

http://www.gty.org/Resources/Questions/QA120.

Confession-Lazy

Currently, I keep on searching more about the Reformed evangelical movement.
As I keep on surfing the net, then I realise how lazy am I ,do not really use my heart and brain
to filter what info or things that I am doing now.

Because of this, my spiritual life did not growth,reluctant to read the bible thoroughly.
罗马书12章2节且说：「不要效法这个世界，只要心意更新而变化，叫你们察验何为神的善良、纯全、可喜悦的旨意。」
I thought if I do this and that, then my Lord would happy but He isn't.

Conclusions:
若不思想、不学习，追求圣洁，就会辜负主所赐给我的，一切都徒然。

Maturity

What is maturity ? the state of being mature ,ripeness.

Sometimes, I ask myself whether my behaviour show I am childish.

Then , recently sometimes happen that really make me think that
the behavior is really childish.

Maybe, I quote an example :
In a family, suppose father and mother are in love and communicate to each other. But the husband do somethings unexpectedly ,without the knowledge of his wife. Then, the third party aware of it, quickly tell the truth to his wife. Then the wife has no choice and make the choice to buy the sold house and car for future benefit.

As a third parties, what would be your view point for the workdone by the husband and the wife.

This remind me again,the word of god.In 1 Corinthians 13 ,Paul wrote about the meaning of Love.

Love suffers long and is kind;Love does not envy;love does not parade itself,is not puffed up,does not behave rudely,does not seek its own,is not provoked,thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity,endures all things. Love never fails.But whether there are prophecies,they will fail;whether there are tongues,they will cease;whether there is knowledge,it will vanish away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part.But when that which is perfect has come,then that which is in part will be donw away.

When I was a child,I spoke as a child,I understood as a child, I thought as a child;but when I became a man,I put away childish things.
For now then I shall know just as I also am known.
And now abide faith,hope,love,these three ; but the greatest of these is Love.

Wish I could observe ,interpret and apply what had learn from the bible.

胡思乱想时。

近日不断胡思乱想，当看到别人的幸福，快乐时，心中不禁地妒忌起来。

一直后悔为何当初。。。。。。

不然自己也有如此的幸福。

除此以外，也将一些责任推给别人。。。。。。

不停的寻找证据，以便日后可以对付了。
心中不禁地问：‘难道上帝看不见我的苦难，视而不见吗？’

但有一个声音对我说：‘请你抬起头看看，看下天空的云彩与彩虹，

这些都是为你而造。为何不开口赞美，而一直执著地埋怨；

何不好好地读我的话语，让我的灵与爱充满你的心。’

当我依照的做时，心中的埋怨，妒忌不在缠绕着我的心。心中的重担突然变的轻松起来。

原来最好的事情和东西一直都在自己的身边，只是我不察觉而已。

多一点与主交通，主必用奇妙奥秘的爱与方法，来安慰我们。

因为神是信实可靠，永不改变。 感恩主一直都再看顾我。

当你听到一个声音或要作决定时。。。

许多時候，我們裡面起了一個聲音，自己不知道這聲音究竟是出乎神的呢，還是出乎自 己的。

在這種情形之下，我們還是不動的好。

如果這是出乎神的，神必給我們充足的證 據來證實這是出乎祂的，叫我們絲毫沒有疑惑的可能。

神喜歡我們照著祂的心意行事。所以我們不可輕舉妄動，以致違反了祂的心意。

神的手指所點的道路，神的手必去預備 你不要說你要做什麼、你不要做什麼；
你只要求神叫你看見祂所為你選擇的是那一條 路。

如果道路還未顯明，這就是說：現在還沒有行動的需要；你站在你現在所站的地位 上，神是負全責的。

但保惠师，就是父因我的命所要差来的圣灵，
他要将一切的事指教你们，并且要叫你们想起我对你们所说的一切话.(约14：26）

愛是不保留

虽然有些事，一转身就一辈子。
但圣经说：神爱世人，并将他的独生子赐下，为担当我们的罪，被钉死在十字架上，第三日从死里复活。
为我们预备。

上帝的爱是永不止息。

歌林多前书13：1-13：
信望爱中最大的是爱。作者保罗写给歌林多教会。他要把更高的道路指示你们。

我若能说世人和天使的方言，却没有爱，我就成了鸣的锣，响的鈀一样。
我若有先知讲道的恩赐，也明白各样的奥秘，各样的知识；并且有全备的信，
叫我能够移山，却没有爱，我就算不得什么。
我若把一切所有的分给人，又舍己身被人焚烧，却没有爱，对我仍然毫无益处。

爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈。爱是不妒忌，不自夸，不张狂；不作失礼的事，
不求自己的益处，不轻易动怒，不计较人的过犯；
不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理。

爱是凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。
爱是永存不息的。先知的讲道终必过去，
方言终必停止，知识终必消失。

因为我们现在所知道的，只是一部分；所讲的道也只是一部分；
等那完全的来到，这部分的就要过去了。
我作孩子的时候，说话像孩子，心思像孩子，想法像孩子，既然长大了，就把孩子的事都丢弃了。

我们现在是对着镜子观看，模糊不清，到那时就要面对面了。
我现在所知道的只是一部分，到那时就完全知道了，好像主完全知道我一样。

现在常存的有信，望，爱这三样，其中最大的是爱。

有些事，一转身就是一辈子

After saw this short film,sometimes I really regret that when I think back
the moment with him during school day.
Although now have FB account,but still have no chance to meet together,
even a small chat.

Think this is the regret thing in my life...

Don't wait... ... sometimes what is left and gone,time could not reverse