Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Success means never feeling tired- Dr Mortimer Alder

Psychological fatigue is an early-warning system: something is wrong. It can be cured -- but not by resting

Failure is probably the most fatiguing experience a person ever has.

There is nothing more enervating than not succeeding-being blocked,not moving ahead.

It is a vicious circle.Failure breeds fatigue,and the fatigue makes it harder to get to work,which,compounds the failure.

2 main tiredness
1) Start-up fatigue
2) Performance fatigue

In the former case, we keep putting off a task that we are under some compulsion to discharge,
either because it is too tedious or too difficult, we shirk it. And the longer we postpone it,
the more tired we feel.

1) Start-up fatigue
The remedy is obvious, though perhaps not easy to apply: an exertion of willpower.
The moment I find myself turning away from a job, or putting it under a pile of other
things I have to do, I clear my desk of everything else and attack the objectionable item
first. To prevent start-up fatigue, always tackle the most difficult job first.

2) Performance fatigue (more difficult to handle)
Here we are not reluctant to get started, but we cannot seem to do the job right.
Its difficulties appear insurmountable and, however hard we work,
we fail again and again. That mounting experience of failure carries
with it an ever-increasing burden of mental fatigue.
In such a situation, I work as hard as I can -- then let the unconscious take over.

Success was now as exhilarating as failure had been depressing.
I was experiencing the joy of what psychologists today call "flow."
Life offers few pleasures more invigorating than the successful exercise of our faculties.
It unleashes energies for additional work.

Doing a job successfully means doing whatever is necessary&emdash;and that includes winning the cooperation of others.

will do another post on how the way to breakthrough above situation and move forward to the way of success...






Thursday, January 14, 2010

You are Special ! Don't Give up ! You are matter to Him !




Like this story very much, would like to share it to all .


Remember no matter what is happen , other ppl critise ,always remember

He Love Us so much :-) We are matter to Him, We are belong to Him.

Watch the story attached below ,highly recommended to parent and children.


Monday, November 16, 2009

When Should People Leave Their Church?

I would hardly pray for this quite some time, as notice the church situation is getting worse,the doctrine of christian religion is getting corrupted.

However able to find an article which help a lots and guidance,
because I wish to leave the church .....

Adapted by gty.org, put it in my blogger as reference for future.
Does not need to copy others article to make it my own .

http://www.gty.org/Resources/Questions/QA120.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Confession-Lazy

Currently, I keep on searching more about the Reformed evangelical movement.
As I keep on surfing the net, then I realise how lazy am I ,do not really use my heart and brain
to filter what info or things that I am doing now.

Because of this, my spiritual life did not growth,reluctant to read the bible thoroughly.
罗马书12章2节且说:「不要效法这个世界,只要心意更新而变化,叫你们察验何为神的善良、纯全、可喜悦的旨意。」
I thought if I do this and that, then my Lord would happy but He isn't.

Conclusions:
若不思想、不学习,追求圣洁,就会辜负主所赐给我的,一切都徒然。

Monday, November 2, 2009

Maturity



What is maturity ? the state of being mature ,ripeness.

Sometimes, I ask myself whether my behaviour show I am childish.

Then , recently sometimes happen that really make me think that
the behavior is really childish.

Maybe, I quote an example :
In a family, suppose father and mother are in love and communicate to each other. But the husband do somethings unexpectedly ,without the knowledge of his wife. Then, the third party aware of it, quickly tell the truth to his wife. Then the wife has no choice and make the choice to buy the sold house and car for future benefit.

As a third parties, what would be your view point for the workdone by the husband and the wife.

This remind me again,the word of god.In 1 Corinthians 13 ,Paul wrote about the meaning of Love.

Love suffers long and is kind;Love does not envy;love does not parade itself,is not puffed up,does not behave rudely,does not seek its own,is not provoked,thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity,endures all things. Love never fails.But whether there are prophecies,they will fail;whether there are tongues,they will cease;whether there is knowledge,it will vanish away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part.But when that which is perfect has come,then that which is in part will be donw away.

When I was a child,I spoke as a child,I understood as a child, I thought as a child;but when I became a man,I put away childish things.
For now then I shall know just as I also am known.
And now abide faith,hope,love,these three ; but the greatest of these is Love.

Wish I could observe ,interpret and apply what had learn from the bible.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

胡思乱想时。


近日不断胡思乱想,当看到别人的幸福,快乐时,心中不禁地妒忌起来。


一直后悔为何当初。。。。。。
不然自己也有如此的幸福。
除此以外,也将一些责任推给别人。。。。。。
不停的寻找证据,以便日后可以对付了。
心中不禁地问:‘难道上帝看不见我的苦难,视而不见吗?’


但有一个声音对我说:‘请你抬起头看看,看下天空的云彩与彩虹,

这些都是为你而造。为何不开口赞美,而一直执著地埋怨;

何不好好地读我的话语,让我的灵与爱充满你的心。’


当我依照的做时,心中的埋怨,妒忌不在缠绕着我的心。心中的重担突然变的轻松起来。


原来最好的事情和东西一直都在自己的身边,只是我不察觉而已。

多一点与主交通,主必用奇妙奥秘的爱与方法,来安慰我们。

因为神是信实可靠,永不改变。 感恩主一直都再看顾我。

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

当你听到一个声音或要作决定时。。。



许多時候,我們裡面起了一個聲音,自己不知道這聲音究竟是出乎神的呢,還是出乎自 己的。

在這種情形之下,我們還是不動的好。

如果這是出乎神的,神必給我們充足的證 據來證實這是出乎祂的,叫我們絲毫沒有疑惑的可能。

神喜歡我們照著祂的心意行事。所以我們不可輕舉妄動,以致違反了祂的心意。

神的手指所點的道路,神的手必去預備 你不要說你要做什麼、你不要做什麼;
你只要求神叫你看見祂所為你選擇的是那一條 路。

如果道路還未顯明,這就是說:現在還沒有行動的需要;你站在你現在所站的地位 上,神是負全責的。

但保惠师,就是父因我的命所要差来的圣灵,
他要将一切的事指教你们,并且要叫你们想起我对你们所说的一切话.(约14:26)